“Prepare yourself for the after-effects”
Having a one night stand is usually the end goal you’re trying to reach when you hit the hookup and dating scene. One night stands are great, since you get to have fun with a woman without having to worry about committing to her, and you can get to try out new things you’ve always wanted to do in bed. However, sometimes it’s not easy to know how you should prepare for your one night stand. Not being prepared can really ruin the experience, and you always want to make sure things go smoothly. Following these simple tips can help you make your one night stand into one of the best nights of your life.
Have a Plan for the Night
“Plan your perfect night”
Having a plan for your one night stand is one of the best ways to ensure that you get as much out of the experience as possible. You don’t want to plan out every single detail, of course, but you need to have a basic game plan in mind. You want to plan where you are going to go, how you are going to get there, and what you will do when you get there. Having these things in mind will keep you from being awkward or not knowing what to do, which can ruin the night before it even gets started. Women don’t want to hook up with guys that don’t know what they’re doing, so make sure to have a plan.
Make Sure to Communicate Clearly
Once you actually start the one night stand, it is important to communicate clearly with the woman you are hooking up with. Ask her what she likes and make sure that she enjoys the way things are going. You want to ask her as often as possible to make sure that she is okay with what you are doing. This makes you certain that there are no issues of consent and it can also be a good way to make sure she’s enjoying herself. Communication is key during sex and if you talk through it, you can be guaranteed the experience will be more enjoyable for everyone involved.
Have a Plan for the Morning After
You don’t want to have an awkward morning after. Make sure you have a general plan for how things are going to go after the deed is done. You may want to make sure to have coffee and some breakfast items available in case she doesn’t need to leave immediately. You should also always have extra toiletriesavailable – keeping small toothbrushes in your bathroom is going to be very helpful for her – so that she can be as comfortable as possible. Make sure to have a plan in case you need to leave for work. This is something you may want to work out before things get started so that you can avoid some awkwardness in the morning, but it’s up to your personal preference for sure. Just have a general plan in mind so you have something to fall back on.