Why You Should Avoid Romance If You Want to Get Laid

"Don't take her out on dates"

“Don’t take her out on dates”

A man looking to date can focus on romance or he can focus on sex. Romance and love aren’t the same thing, but they’re often used interchangeably in the dating world. When you’re getting ready to get into the market ask yourself what you’re really looking for. Do you want a soul mate, or do you want to get lucky? Here’s why you really have to choose.

Romance Takes Caution

When you’re in a relationship that has a romantic focus it’s going to take awhile for you to get to the sex. Romance takes caution. It takes time spent getting to know one another personally before you get to know her intimately. She’s not going to want to put out right away because then you’d think that she was easy and it could spoil everything, in her mind. This means that if you’re going to seal the deal with a lady you can’t let her put you in the boyfriend zone. Then you’ll never be able to just hook up with her.

Hookup Sites Are Better than Romance Sites

"Believe me, these sites are too good"

“Believe me, these sites are too good”

Online dating isn’t the wave of the future anymore. It’s very much fixed and you can tell by how many people are using online dating to find sex partners not soul mates. Hookup sites are just plain better than romance sites. You don’t have to answer a lot of questions, there are tons of free sites, and when you log into a hookup site you know that you and the women you’re meeting are on the same page. There’s no more confusion and a lot fewer mind games on hookup sites. You’re not looking for a love connection, and neither is she. You can jump right into flirting, sexy chats, and having fun because that’s what she came here for too. Romance sites have all sorts of safe walls and barriers that have to do with a culture that’s expressly against no strings attached hookups.

Romance Clouds the Issue

Romance is about so much more than physical chemistry. That makes it hard to tell if the sparks are really flying between you two or not. When you’re having the time of your life with a woman it’s easy to know what’s turning you on. When you’re trying to have something romantic it can get confusing, and you don’t know if you’re really into her because she gets all your jokes or because you want to touch that body. On the other hand, it’s a lot easier to go the other way. If you hook up with a woman and the next day she still seems funny, sexy, and awesome then you know that you have a real connection with her. Too often it’s the desire to get laid that makes you think that a woman is perfect for you romantically.

If you can honestly say that you want to arrange hookups and have sex then there’s no question about it. You should focus on having sex, and leave romance for when you’ve found the woman hot enough to settle down with.


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