Best Places to Meet Up (That Aren’t the Bedroom)

Right, you’ve read the title of this guide. Yes, we think that you should meet up with your lady somewhere besides the bedroom. Not everything about casual dating needs to revolve entirely around sex, or it would just be called “casual sex.”

Taking her to dinner once won’t chain you to a relationship with her.

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Getting a good, friendly rapport going with the woman you’ve met on one of our favorite British casual dating sites is not a useless waste of time. It’s a great opportunity for you to figure out if she’s someone you want to meet up with in an intimate way, and a great way for her to find out if you’re someone she wants to hook up with.

This is not useless. It can also help her be more relaxed with you in the bedroom, and put you both in the mood. Jitters and nerves have a place on a first date, but not in the bedroom.

Meet her somewhere public.

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This is just common sense. Meet her somewhere like a restaurant or park. It’s good basic safety practice, and she’ll recognize it for exactly what it is. This will put her more at her ease with you.

It is also true that it’s far easier to back out of a date if something goes wrong this way. If she’s not all she seems, or if the two of you are entirely incompatible, you want to know before things get serious.

If you’ve already put down a payment on a hotel room when you meet her, you’re definitely assuming too much. We’re not saying that you’re assuming too much that she’s going to sleep with you—that’s the least of your worries. You’re just assuming too much that you’re even going to want to sleep with her when you meet in person.

Women are more likely to lie in their profile pictures.

Even on the top casual dating sites, women will touch up, adjust, and play with their pictures. You want to make sure that you’re getting the real thing before you agree to go any farther.

Plus, the two of you might just be incompatible. If you have nothing to talk about and nothing in common, you may not want to spend the whole night together. If there’s no chemistry, then forget the rest of the evening, fake an emergency if you have to, and walk away.

Keep the date on-topic.

Hopefully, you’ve been messaging her a bit, and you’ve discovered some shared hobbies. If so, you’re in luck, and you’ll have something to talk to her about at dinner.

If not, hopefully you’ll be able to find a few shared hobbies before long, or at least something non-sexual to talk about. This will help both of you feel better about your date.

Keep things low-key.

Remember the “casual” part of meeting on casual dating sites in the UK. You’re both in this for fun, so make sure you’re not putting too much pressure on each other.

You want to hook up, and that’s fine. Just try not to make things crazy, and try not to make every single word an innuendo. This will just make her uncomfortable, and won’t do any good when you try to take things a little bit further.


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