The best way to keep a casual relationship going is to make sure you both go into it knowing what you want. No surprises, no re-dos, and no wondering whether or not you’re both happy.
You don’t want to start meeting up with a woman only to find that she’s in it for the long haul and you’re in it until breakfast. Fortunately, there are some ways to make sure this isn’t the case.
Meeting women on casual dating sites helps.
If you’re meeting women on casual dating sites, you know they’re there looking for the same things you’re looking for. There’s no guessing, and no finding out much too late that she’s hoping for a house in the country with seven children later on.
Of course, there are some women who aren’t sure what kind of site they’re on in the first place. There are others that are just so desperate they’re trying to cast as wide a net as possible.
Be honest about your intentions.
If you’re on a casual dating site, don’t worry about telling women that you’re actually looking for something casual. A lot of blokes worry that women don’t want to hear that, or that they’re going to be upset and look for someone else to date.
However, open and honest communication is the key to having fewer issues later on. You don’t want to tell her you want one thing, then set about pursuing another.
If your intentions are out in the open, you’ll banish any doubt about the situation. Remember that assuming makes an ass out of you and me, because you don’t want to force this woman to assume what you want. This can lead to many kinds of disaster.
Don’t be paranoid.
Even though we do recommend being open and honest, that shouldn’t mean that you think women on casual dating sites are out to put a ring on your finger, or on their own.
Most of the time, we just recommend that because some men and women are on these sites looking for casual sex OR something long-term. If you’re clear that you ONLY want casual sex, you’re not going to have any issues later on if she takes a shine to you.
Women on these sites generally want the same things as you do. You’ll have more success with women if you realize this, and go about giving those ladies what they want.
Communication puts her mind at ease as well.
You’d be surprised how many women we’ve hooked up with that were relieved to find we only wanted a one-night stand. Yes, it should be obvious, but surprisingly, many of these women had had intimate moments with men who turned out to want relationships.
To be successful with girls, just put her mind at ease. That will also put yours at ease, and make sure that you will have a much easier time if you’re trying to become a player.